The effects of other peoples choices

The decisions that others make do impact our lives, some more than others. I am stunned to see someone willingly make a choice simply because it is easiest without care or thought of another person. I always wanted better, starting when I was probably 4 or 5. I wanted the "pretty" life, I especially thought all children wanted to go to the park, to run & play, to swing, go down the slide, to have picnics at the zoo, to color, read books, look at pictures. I am devastated that more children today just want to be lazy, do only what they want, and have no thought or consideration for others. Today I believe this will be confirmed in this 10 year old girl, I truly think she is smart, but she would rather hurt everyone around her, which does end up hurting herself in the long run, rather that choose something noble to inspire her to be a better person. In 20 years, all of this patronizing of these children will backfire in MY society, I will be stuck with these disgusting people, my children and grandchildren will have to pay for them and the "lazy disgusting" lifestyle...I see this as a one way situation, there's or those of "normal caring thoughtful" people. This is another reason why I am sad:(. I will show a picture of the pretty I dreamed of, it's just that it will never happen now.